如果你爱的人正好也爱你，那么在一起就会水到渠成。
If the person you love happens to love you, it will be natural to be together.
但是，如果爱情只是一厢情愿地独自旅行，那么心理失衡会让人在固定的时间内，离开那个让自己感觉不到回应的人。
However, if love only travels alone in wishful thinking, then psychological imbalance will make people leave the person who makes them feel unresponsive within a fixed time.
成熟，不是年龄，而是一个人如何对待事情。
Maturity is not age, but how one treats things.
是啊，在当下的男女感情中，背叛，早已“升级”。
Yes, in the current relationship between men and women, betrayal has long been "upgraded".
人们一旦经历了，就很容易以自己认为正确的方式看待周围的一切，包括自己的情感世界。
Once people have experienced it, it is easy to see everything around them, including their own emotional world, in the way they think is right.
依靠父母，枉为人子。并不能给孩子们树立榜样。最终最终会因为自己从前的无耻行为而被后代嫌弃。
Rely on your parents in vain. It doesn"t set an example for children. They will eventually be rejected by future generations because of their previous shameless behavior.
我们先要了解一个概念：什么是精神消耗？
We need to understand a concept first: what is mental consumption?
无法给你未来，只能占据你的现在，却不能和你在一起，却时刻给你一丝丝希望，让你留恋。
Can not give you the future, can only occupy your present, but can not be with you, but always give you a glimmer of hope, let you miss.
而且，在当今这个时代，太多不注重物质和经济的女人，男人们却很难达到他们的要求。所以，即使发生亲密关系，但日常相处中，男人没有达到女人所期望的标准，那就是感情破裂。
Moreover, in today"s era, there are too many women who do not pay attention to material and economic, but it is difficult for men to meet their requirements. Therefore, even if intimate relationships occur, but in daily life, men do not meet the standard expected by women, that is, emotional breakdown.
