一、你今天敢于做别人不敢做的事，你明天才可以拥有别人不能拥有的东西。成功的路上，只有奋斗才能给你最大的安全感和答案。不要轻易把梦想寄托在某个人身上，也不要在乎身边的闲言碎语，因为未来是你自己的，不是你能不能，而是你要不要！每天给自己一个完美的交代，为自己而努力！
If you dare to do what others dare not do today, you can have what others can"t have tomorrow. On the way to success, only struggle can give you the greatest sense of security and answer.
Don"t easily place your dreams on someone, and don"t care about the gossip around you, because the future is your own, not whether you can or not, but whether you want to! Give yourself a perfect account every day and work hard for yourself!
二、有时候你把什么放下了，不是因为突然就舍得了，而是因为期限到了，过去了就是过去了。任性够了，成熟多了，也就知道这一页该翻过去了。
Sometimes what you put aside is not because you suddenly can"t give up, but because the deadline has arrived, the past is the past. Wilful enough, mature enough, also know that this page should be turned over.
三、不要在意别人在背后怎么看你说你，因为这些言语改变不了事实，却可能搅乱你的心。心如果乱了，一切就都乱了。理解你的人，不需要解释；不理解你的人，不配你解释。
Don"t care what others think of you behind your back, because these words can"t change the truth, but may disturb your heart. If the heart is chaotic, everything will be chaotic. People who understand you don"t need to explain; people who don"t understand you don"t deserve to explain.
四、细想想，人这辈子有人羡慕你，有人讨厌你有人嫉妒你，有人看不起你没关系，他们都是外人，生活就是这样，用心数数，我们的生命已经过半，还有多少日子够我们浪费，够我们消遣，够我们作践，够我们感叹，好好的活着，简简单单过好每一天！
Think about it carefully. Some people admire you all their lives. Some people hate you and others envy you. Some people look down on you. They are all outsiders. Life is like this. Count carefully. Our life is over half. How many days are enough for us to waste, to entertain, to practice, to sigh, to live well, to simply live each day!
五、 你要忍，忍到春暖花开；你要走，走到灯火通明；你要看过世界辽阔，再评判是好是坏。人生的目标，在于向前，也在于拐弯。人生的成长，在于学习，也在于经历。羡慕只有配上行动力才有意义，想遇到想象中的人，就得让自己接近想象中的自己；想拥有不曾有过的生活，就得做以前不曾做过的事。
You have to endure, endure spring blossoms; you have to go, go to the bright lights; you have to see the vast world, and then judge whether it is good or bad. The goal of life is to move forward and turn around. The growth of life lies in learning and experience.
Envy is meaningful only when accompanied by motivation. If you want to meet an imaginary person, you have to make yourself close to the imaginary self. If you want to have a life you have never had, you have to do something you have never done before.
六、所以，我情愿把喜欢珍藏于内心，喜欢你是我一个人的事，与你无关。余生没那么长，不用一味的付出，习惯得寸进尺的人，请忠于自己，活得像最初的模样。
Therefore, I prefer to cherish my love in my heart, like you are my own thing, and it has nothing to do with you. The rest of your life is not that long. If you are used to making progress, please be loyal to yourself and live like you were at first.
七、接受孤独，接受失去，接受自己是不完整的，偶尔还会被变故打败。也许接受是难以下咽的，但在无法承受的时候，要学会放过自己。
Accepting loneliness, accepting loss, accepting oneself as incomplete, and occasionally being defeated by change. Perhaps acceptance is difficult to swallow, but when it is unbearable, we should learn to let go of ourselves.
八、你根本就不了解你自己，只有别人才是了解你，人对人就是一面镜子，当你看到别人的时候，要把别人当做一面镜子，通过他的反应来了解自己。你想改变别人，你要首先改变你自己。
You don"t know yourself at all. Only others know you. People are a mirror to others. When you see others, you should regard others as a mirror and understand yourself through their reactions. If you want to change others, you must first change yourself.
九、当你全力以赴，打算对一个人好的时候。你就变成了傻子，聋子，眼里除了他，什么都没有。就连伤害，都变成了一场爱情的检测。你还傻不兮兮的鼓励自己，要坚强。
When you go all out to be good to someone. You become a fool, a deaf man, who has nothing in his eyes but him. Even injury becomes a test of love. You are still foolish to encourage yourself, to be strong.
十、爱是自己的东西，没有什么人真正值得倾其所有去爱。但有了爱，可以帮助你战胜生命中的种种虚妄，以最长的触角伸向世界，伸向你自己不曾发现的内部，开启所有平时麻木的感官，超越积年累月的倦怠，剥掉一层层世俗的老茧，把自己最柔软的部分暴露在外。
Love is one"s own thing, and no one really deserves all of it. But love can help you overcome all kinds of illusions in your life, reach out to the world with the longest antenna, reach out to the inside you have never found, open up all the numb senses in peacetime, transcend the years of tiredness, peel off layers of secular cocoons, and expose the softest part of yourself.
十一、只有经历过泥泞的道路才会留下脚印，踏实生活，努力拼出自己的一片天！留在身边最长久的是爱你的人，握在手里最暖的是疼你的心。要珍惜善待，不疑不寒，求同存异，惜福随缘，记好处，赏优点，不为老记忆留下遗憾。
Only through the muddy road will we leave footprints, live a solid life, and strive to spell out their own day! The person who loves you is the one who stays with you for the longest time, and the warmest one who holds your hand is the one who loves you.
We should cherish kindness, never doubt cold, seek common ground while reserving differences, cherish luck, follow luck, remember advantages, appreciate advantages, and not leave regrets for old memories.
十二、一个人成长的过程，是一个不断在失败中寻找与把握机会的过程，没有失败就无所谓成功。每个人都可以从磨难和失败中成长，就像腐朽的土壤中可以生长鲜活的植物那样。只有当我们能够以平和的心态面对失败和考验，我们才能成熟，才能收获。而那些失败和挫折，也将成为我们生命中的一笔财富。
The process of a person"s growth is a process of constantly looking for and seizing opportunities in failure. Without failure, there is no success. Everyone can grow from hardships and failures, just as living plants can grow from rotten soil.
Only when we can face failure and test with a peaceful mind can we mature and reap the harvest. And those failures and setbacks will also become a treasure in our lives.
十三、任何事情，什么时候开始都不晚，晚的是你从来都不敢开始，今天拖明天，明天拖后天，一年又一年，除了年龄长了一岁，其他依旧老样子，而一旦开始，你就会发现，其实那些所谓的困难，都只是自己设想的而已，只要开始了，一切都简单了，不怕你不会，就怕你不做！
Anything, when it"s too late to start, it"s too late for you to dare to start. Today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, year after year, except one year older, the others are still the same. Once you start, you will find that the so-called difficulties are only what you envisioned. As long as you start, everything is simple, not afraid you won"t, you will be afraid. You don"t do it!
十四、拥有了好心情，就拥有了自信，就拥有了对未来生活的向往，充满期待，让我们拥有这好心情吧，因为生活着就是幸运和快乐。记住这句话：能管理好自己的情绪，你就是优雅的，能控制好自己的心态，你就是成功的。
Have a good mood, have self-confidence, have a yearning for the future life, full of expectations, let us have this good mood, because living is lucky and happy. Remember this sentence: if you can manage your emotions well, you are graceful, if you can control your mind well, you are successful.
十五、往后余生，不必逞强，不必说谎，爱你的人，都能懂你的模样。等不起的人就不要等了，你的痴情感动不了一个不爱你的人。伤害你的不是对方的绝情，而是你心存幻想的坚持。
For the rest of your life, you don"t have to be brave or lie. People who love you will understand you. Don"t wait for someone who can"t afford to wait. You can"t move a person who doesn"t love you. What hurts you is not the desperation of the other person, but the perseverance of your fantasy.
十六、真正的懂得，不必言语，不必刻意，有时，只需浅浅一个微笑。真正的懂得，不必解释，不必逃避，有时，只需轻轻的一声呼唤。以后一定要成为自己喜欢的样子，才会配得上喜欢你的男孩。
Real understanding, no words, no deliberate, sometimes, just a shallow smile. Real understanding, need not explain, need not escape, sometimes, just a gentle call. In the future, you must be what you like, so that you can be worthy of the boy who likes you.
十七、争取每一个今天，都是人生的造化，改变每一个时间，都是人生最大的希望，争取时间，造化自己，时间是最好的筹码。记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能接受的。
To strive for every today is the creation of life. To change every time is the greatest hope of life. To strive for time and to create oneself is the best chip. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change is changeable, and acceptance is unacceptable.
十八、人就这么一辈子，开心也是一天，不开心也是一天，所以你一定要给力开心。人就这么一辈子，做错事不可以重来；碎了的心难再愈合，所以你一定不能事后后悔。人就这么一辈子，过了今天就不会再有另一个今天；一分一秒都不会再回头，所以你一定要珍惜每分每秒，请记得一辈子要都微笑面对任何挫折。
It"s also a day for people to be happy for a lifetime. So, unhappy is also a day, so you must be happy. People can"t do wrong again in their lifetime; broken hearts can"t heal again, so you can"t regret it afterwards.
For a lifetime, there will be no more today after today; no more turning back for a minute, so you must cherish every minute and second. Please remember to smile all your life in the face of any setbacks.
十九、给人生一个梦，给梦一条路，给路一个方向；跌倒了要学会自己爬起来，受伤了要学会自己疗伤；生命只有走出来的精彩，沒有等待出来的辉煌！
Give life a dream, give a dream a way, give a direction; Learn to climb up when you fall, and learn to heal when you hurt; Life is only wonderful when you come out, not brilliant when you wait!
二十、在你出发之前，永远是梦想；当上路之后，永远是挑战。很多时候，我们不是欠缺成功的筹码，而是欠缺自信。所有的路，只有你脚踩上去了才知其远近和曲折。
Before you start, it"s always a dream; when you go on the road, it"s always a challenge. In many cases, we are not lack of success chips, but lack of self-confidence. All roads, only when you step on them can you know their distance and twists.
二十一、放不下就不要放下，忘不了就先记着吧，总有一天你会发现，许多事情，在念念不忘中，已经遗忘。越是轻易得到，就越不懂珍惜。远离那个不懂珍惜的人，就能让你少伤一次心。
If you can"t put it down, don"t put it down. If you can"t forget, remember it first. Someday you will find that many things have been forgotten in your mind. The easier it is to get, the less you know how to cherish it. Stay away from the person who doesn"t know how to cherish, and you will hurt your heart less once.
二十二、生活本不苦，苦的是我们欲望太多；人心本不累，累的是放不下的太多。一个人怕孤独，两个人怕辜负。动心的时候万物复苏，伤心的时候销声匿迹，世界上最远的距离，不是爱，不是恨，而是熟悉的人，渐渐变得陌生。
Life is not bitter, bitter is that we have too many desires; the human heart is not tired, tired is unable to let go too much. One person is afraid of loneliness, two people are afraid of disappointment.
Everything resuscitates when you are moved, and disappears when you are sad. The furthest distance in the world is not love, not hate, but familiar people, who are becoming strange gradually.
