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当某人突然从你的生活中消失的时候，不要问为什么，只要到了他或她该去的时候，不管是朋友还是恋人，接受就行了。成熟是指知道某事最终无能为力。
When someone suddenly disappears from your life, don"t ask why, just accept it when he or she should go, whether it"s a friend or lover. Maturity is knowing that something is ultimately powerless.
有一天你想起我的时候，时间已经学会了摆平所有的错误，不再问为什么。(萧伯纳，时间)有一天，面对爱情开始吝啬的话，会怀念当初火热的热情吗？一路上，经过各自的曲折，有一天，我挑选了一个人，打出了泡沫。
One day when you think of me, time has learned to deal with all mistakes and no longer ask why. (Bernard Shaw, time) one day, if you start to be stingy in the face of love, will you miss your fiery enthusiasm? Along the way, through their own twists and turns, one day, I picked a person, played a bubble.
拒绝这件事越简单越好。很明显别人需要自己的帮助。说明半天自己成了欠别人的感觉。能帮，想帮就帮，帮不了就拒绝。人际关系简单明了，有时最恰当，懂得拒绝，才能不容易纠缠。
The simpler it is to refuse it, the better. Obviously others need their own help. It means that you owe others for a long time. Help if you can, help if you want, and refuse if you can"t. Interpersonal relationship is simple and clear, sometimes the most appropriate, know how to refuse, can not easily entangle.
睡不着觉的夜晚，半唱青梦，手指上无法抗拒的千宗宇乐是心中充满脓疮的旧疾病，默默倾诉的是那风华雪雨中的情来来去去。(莎士比亚。)(沉默。)
Sleepless night, half singing green dream, the irresistible Qianzong Yule on his fingers is an old disease full of abscess in his heart, silently talking about the feelings coming and going in the wind, snow and rain. (Shakespeare.) silence
即使生活有一千个让你哭的理由，也要找到让你自己笑的理由。因为这就是人生。我们能做的是让自己更强，成为更好的自己。(生命)。
Even if life has a thousand reasons to make you cry, find a reason to make yourself laugh. Because this is life. What we can do is to make ourselves stronger and better. (life).
最怕空气突然安静，最怕朋友突然关心，突然到来总是令人吃惊。人最怕的是，你认真的时候，我开玩笑，你开玩笑的时候，我又认真了。
I"m most afraid of the sudden silence of the air, and I"m most afraid of the sudden concern of my friends. It"s always surprising to come suddenly. What people fear most is that when you are serious, I joke, and when you joke, I am serious again.
我不明白，别人说痛苦的记忆会随着时间的推移而变化，但我心里总是在这样的深夜悄悄袭击胸部，不断扩散，不断重复。(莎士比亚)。
I don"t understand. Others say that painful memories will change over time, but my heart always attacks my chest quietly in such a late night, spreading and repeating. (Shakespeare). No one cares how you cry late at night, and no one cares how much autumn you have to toss and turn.
没有人在乎你如何深夜哭泣，也没有人在乎你要辗转反侧忍受多少秋天。外人只看结果，看一个人坚持的过程，我们都明白这个道理，就不会再在人前耍赖，四处寻求安慰诉苦了。(莎士比亚)。
Outsiders only look at the results and the process of one"s persistence. We all understand this truth. We will no longer play tricks in front of others and seek comfort and complain everywhere.
心累了就用沉默代替一切。我不问，也不提，伤心，心痛，一个人不停地走，用沉默代替一切。我不会哭，也不会笑，累了我就会消失。我知道每条路都很难走。
When the heart is tired, it replaces everything with silence. I do not ask, nor mention, sad, heartache, a person kept walking, with silence instead of everything. I won"t cry or laugh. I"ll disappear when I"m tired. I know every road is hard to walk.
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