不要容忍这类人，不把你放在心上。Don"t tolerate such people and don"t take you to heart.
但是，不接受又能怎样呢？没有放弃就可以回到过去吗？
But what if you don"t accept it? Can you go back to the past without giving up?
例如，学业上的失败，工作上的不顺，以及婚姻中的不幸。
For example, academic failure, bad luck at work, and misfortune in marriage.
村上春树说：刚刚好，看到你幸福的样子，于是你幸福快乐。
Haruki Murakami said: just right. Seeing your happiness, you are happy.
取决于付出的程度：是否能对对方慷慨
It depends on the degree of giving: whether you can be generous to each other
妒忌的驱使，让他无法正面看待你的成功。他心神不宁，会用任何方法来阻挠你的发展。
Driven by jealousy, he can"t look at your success positively. He is restless and will obstruct your development in any way.
对待无情之人，你的冷漠，是一种自我保护。
Treat ruthless people, your indifference is a kind of self-protection.
事实上，被爱是一种能力。能够完全俘获男人心的女人，绝非易事。
In fact, being loved is an ability. A woman who can completely capture a man"s heart is by no means easy.
就像张小娴说的那样：只要有个人，在我说没事的时候，知道我并不真的很好；在我强颜欢笑的时候，我知道我并不真正快乐。
As Zhang Xiaoxian said: as long as there is someone, when I say it"s okay, I know I"m not really good; When I forced a smile, I knew I wasn"t really happy.
没有得到回复的那段日子，整个人就像失去了灵魂一样没有活力，盼望他能转变心情，然后又向自己解释到底为什么那样。
In those days when he didn"t get a reply, the whole person was like losing his soul. I hope he can change his mood, and then explain to himself why.
那时候，你我，只懂爱，却不知道如何对抗分别。
At that time, you and I only knew love, but didn"t know how to resist separation.
