今天我分享一些你越早知道越好的人际交往中的经验，都是根据自己的经验和教训总结而来，希望你们早点看到避免一些不必要的麻烦。
没有真正意义上的经历过别人经历过的痛苦，那么你就没有资格站在，道德的角度劝别人大度。
no real sense of the experience of the pain experienced by others, then you are not qualified to stand in the moral point of view to advise others magnanimous.
和别人的圈子不同，就不要强迫自己易容进这一个圈子里，不然以后你很可能成为这个圈子里被孤立的人。
and other people"s circle, do not force yourself to easily fit into this circle, or you are likely to become isolated in this circle later.
曾经帮助过你的人一定要好好的感谢，而那些曾经背叛过你的人，那么你一定要远离，因为背叛只有零次跟无数次。
Those who have helped you must be good to thank, and those who have betrayed you, then you must stay away, because betrayal is only zero times with countless times.
人际交往中最大的忌讳就是替别人做决定，你只能是提供建议，但是真正的决定一定要让对方自己来做，不然以后出了问题那么所有的责任就都会算到你的头上。
the biggest taboo in interpersonal communication is to make decisions for others, you can only provide advice, but the real decision must let the other party to do, otherwise the problem in the future then all the responsibility will be charged to your head.
不要对所有人都很好，能够真诚地去交上一两个朋友就可以了，如果你对所有人都无差别的付出，那么最后你跟所有人的关系都只会一般。
don"t be good to everyone, can sincerely to make one or two friends on it, if you are indifferent to all people pay, then finally you with all people"s relationship will be general.
不要总是对身边的人抱怨，其实大家都不容易，而且情绪是会传染的，如果你总是传播负能量，那么谁又愿意一直做你的倾听者呢？久而久之，你便会成为被孤立的那一个人。
don"t always complain to people around you, in fact, everyone is not easy, and emotions are contagious, if you always spread negative energy, then who is willing to always be your listener? Over time, you"ll be the one left alone.
你可以有一颗善良之心，但是这颗善良之心一定要有一个底线，没有底线的善良对于别人来说一文不值，甚至有人还会觉得你的善良是理所应当的，你本来就是应该，处处迁就他们的。
You can have a kind heart, but this kind heart must have a bottom line, there is no bottom line of kindness for others is not worth a cent, and even some people will think your kindness is granted, you should be, everywhere to accommodate them.
在平时的人际交往中不管你有多么大的能力，请你一定要学会低调低调其实是一种生存的大智慧，也是一种处世的技巧。
no matter how much ability you have in ordinary interpersonal communication, you must learn to keep a low profile is actually a kind of survival of great wisdom, is also a kind of skills.
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