其实一份好的爱情一定是积极向上的，使你们两个人都能够感到轻松愉快的，两个人都希望因为对方而变得更好，两个人在一起的时候又总能克服各种各样的困难，我想这才应该是爱情最美好的样子。分享一些女孩子越早知道越好的恋爱建议，真实有理，值得学习。
女孩子一定不要因为感动而和一个人在一起，假如这个人一开始就不符合你的预期，那么即使因为感动在一起也不会长久。
Girls must not be moved and a person together, if this person is not in line with your expectations at the beginning, so even because of moving together will not last long.
谈对象可以不用讲究经济实力，但是如果考虑结婚的话，请你一定要好好考虑一下，甜言蜜语你侬我侬并不能够解决柴米油盐的问题，皇后依然能够好好地维持爱情大多数都是来源于经济实力。
Talk about the object can not pay attention to economic strength, but if you consider getting married, please must consider, sweet words can not solve the problem of daily necessities, the queen is still able to maintain a good love most are from economic strength.
假如对方背着你出轨，或者是跟你动手了，那么有了开始的第一次就会有后面的无数次，如果发现这种情况，不要犹豫，一定要坚决地离开。
If the other side cheating on you, or with you, then the first time there will be behind countless times, if found this situation, do not hesitate, must resolutely leave.
不管是在什么样的情况下，对方说不会嫌弃你长胖，这样的甜言蜜语听听就算了，你一定要时刻把变瘦变美这两件事情当成终身奋斗的目标。
No matter be in what kind of circumstance, the other side says won"t abandon you to grow fat, such sweet words listen to calculate, you must always become thin become beautiful these two things as the goal of lifelong struggle.
基于现实考虑，不必要去羡慕其他情侣之间是怎样相处的，你要知道网络上能够呈现出来给你看到的一定是精心设计出来的，所以你只需要按照你们之间正常的相处方式就好了，不要因为别人而影响自己的心情。
Considering the reality, you don"t need to envy how other couples get along with each other. You should know that what can be presented to you on the Internet must be carefully designed, so you just need to follow the normal way of getting along with each other, and don"t affect your mood because of others.
女孩子一定不要因为一段感情而放弃自己的理想，或者是自己的工作，你要明白，想要维持一段需要放弃你自己的理想才能够得到的感情可能会很艰难，而且一旦失败，你就会一败涂地。
Girls should never give up their dreams or careers because of a relationship. You should understand that it can be difficult to maintain a relationship that requires giving up your dreams, and if it fails, you will be a total failure.
女孩子不要以为一个男人能够照顾你，能够为你处理很多事情，这是你的资本，其实并不是，你以为可以什么都不用学不用去做，假如未来的某一天，你们的关系发生改变，那么你又该如何生活，所以不管什么时候都不要忘记提升自己，记住安全感是自己给自己的。
Girls do not think that a man can take care of you, to be able to deal with a lot of things for you, this is your capital, and in fact is not, do you think can learn not to do nothing, if one day, your relationship changed, so how do you life, so don"t forget to improve yourself, no matter when, remember that security is yourself.
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