一、关于感情，其实谁也不曾拥有过谁，在这个为了生存而存在的空间里，每个从身边擦肩而过的人都只是过客，在这里只有一个主角，那就是你自己。Regarding feelings, no one has ever owned anyone. In this space for survival, everyone who passes by is just a passer-by. There is only one protagonist here, that is yourself.
二、时间是个很奇妙的东西，她穿插在我们生命的每一个角落里，看着我们从懵懂的孩童时期到羞涩的青春年华，再到以后的以后。我们从开始的忽略到现在的珍惜，在感叹流年飞逝的同时，也在悄悄成长。那些逝去的岁月里，有我们的欢笑，也有我们的泪水，不管什么，都请让我们珍惜时间吧！
Time is a wonderful thing. She cuts through every corner of our life and watches us from childhood to shy youth, and then to the future. Our neglect from the beginning to the present treasure, while lamenting the passage of years, is also quietly growing up. Those passing years, there are our laughter, but also our tears, no matter what, please let us cherish time!
三、所有的果实，都曾经是鲜花，但不是所有的鲜花都能成为果实；每个人都曾经年轻，但不是所有年轻人都能很好地成长；很多人都在奋斗，但不是奋斗的人都能成功。
All fruits used to be flowers, but not all flowers can be fruits; everyone was young, but not all young people can grow well; many people are struggling, but not all struggling people can succeed.
四、不管你的条件有多差，总会有个人在爱你。不管你的条件有多好，也总有个人不爱你。所有的格言、思想和教导，都应该置于自己的意志之下。你可以认同它们，但不能让他们引领或主宰你，这不是一个有独立意识的人所能允许的事。
No matter how bad your condition is, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your condition is, there will always be someone who doesn"t love you. All mottos, ideas and teachings should be put under their will. You can identify with them, but you can"t let them lead or dominate you. It"s not something that an independent person can allow.
五、成功的人一定付出很多，世界上绝对没有白来的成功！成功其实就是付出。亲爱的朋友，不要羡慕别人的成功，我们应该看到别人，背后默默付出的努力。时间是会照出真相的。只有脚踏实地的成功，那才是真正的成功。
Successful people must pay a lot, there is absolutely no success in the world in vain! Success is actually giving. Dear friends, do not envy the success of others, we should see others, behind the efforts paid silently. Time will tell the truth. Only down-to-earth success is real success.
六、生活是那么强大，它可以在悲伤中剪辑出快乐来。努力是为了在看到喜欢的东西时，不会囊中羞涩，更不用顾及别人的想法。失望到极致是想说一长串证明自己的话，可是话到嘴边却又变成了苦笑，觉得没有任何必要，说一个字都觉得多余。
Life is so powerful that it can edit happiness in sorrow. Effort is to see what you like, not to be shy, not to mention other people"s ideas. Despair to the extreme is to say a long list of proven words, but words to the mouth but turned into a bitter smile, feel no need, say a word feel redundant.
七、就像最近有很多朋友问我说“一个人真的不好过，可曾经爱过的人已不在身边，我们说好的一辈子最后还是没能实现，如今已经懒得再去认识新的人，有些事有些人经历过一次就好”。Just like a lot of friends recently asked me, "a person really bad, but once loved people are no longer around, we said that the last life still failed to achieve, now has been lazy to meet new people, some things have experienced once is good."
八、至于未来会怎样，要用力走下去才知道，先变成更喜欢的自己，路还长，天总会亮。记忆想是倒在掌心的水，不论你摊开还是紧握，终究还是会从指缝中，一滴一滴，流淌干净。As for what will happen in the future, we need to work hard to know that we should first become more like ourselves. It"s still a long way to go, and the sky will always shine. Memory is the water poured into the palm of your hand. Whether you open it or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow clean from your fingers, drop by drop.
九、谈恋爱还没几个月就想过一辈子，交个朋友稍微对你好点就想来往一生，难怪你的怨气那么重、悲伤那么多，这都是天真的代价。有困难是因为能力不足， 有问题是因为方法不对！ 当你觉得工作中困难重重、压力大、无能为力的时候，就是你要提升能力的时候； 当你觉得人生中迷茫无助、问题多、无法面对的时候，就是你要改变思维的时候！
It"s no wonder that you have so much resentment and so much sadness. It"s the price of naivety. Difficulties are due to inadequate ability, and problems are due to incorrect methods. When you feel that there are many difficulties, pressure and powerlessness in your work, it is time for you to improve your ability; when you feel that you are confused and helpless, have many problems and can not face them, it is time for you to change your thinking.
十、困难的是把一些简单的、单调的事情日复一日。这的确需要很深入的理解才能培养起意志。我不知道这算不算喜欢，跟你有关的所有记录我都舍不得删。The difficulty is to do simple, monotonous things day by day. It really takes a deep understanding to cultivate will. I don"t know if it"s a pleasure. I"m reluctant to delete all the records related to you.
十一、 痛过，才知道如何保护自己;哭过，才知道心痛是什么感觉;傻过，才知道适时的坚持与放弃;爱过，才知道自己其实很脆弱。女人，别老想着取悦别人，你越在乎别人，就越卑微。只有取悦自己，并让别人来取悦你，才会令你更有价值。一辈子不长……对自己好点~~
Pain, you know how to protect yourself; cry, you know what the heartache is; foolish, you know the timely insistence and abandonment; love, you know that you are actually very fragile. Women, don"t always want to please others, the more you care about others, the more humble. Only by pleasing yourself and others will you be more valuable. Life is not long... Be nice to yourself~~
十二、消费水平要匹配自己收入的能力，如果你到了中年时候，一月只拿着几千块的工资，却想要过上富豪一样的生活，那么这不是生活，这是虚荣。
Consumption level should match the ability of your income. If you are middle-aged, and you want to live like a rich man with a salary of several thousand yuan in January, then this is not life, it is vanity.
十三、 爱因为不能拥有而深刻，梦因为不能圆而美丽。怀揣未来的梦想，在每一个平凡而不平淡的日子里，才会笑得更加灿烂。只要不放弃，就没有什么能让自己退缩。Love is deep because it cannot be possessed, and dreams are beautiful because they cannot be round. With dreams for the future, we will laugh more brilliantly in every ordinary but not ordinary day. As long as you don"t give up, there"s nothing to flinch from.
十四、这个世界上，总有你不喜欢的人，也总有人不喜欢你，这都很正常。而且，无论你有多好，也无论对方有多好，都苛求彼此不得。因为，好不好是一回事，喜欢不喜欢是另一回事。In this world, there will always be people you don"t like, and there will always be people who don"t like you, which is normal. Moreover, no matter how good you are, and no matter how good you are, you are too strict with each other. Because, good or bad is one thing, like or not is another thing.
十五、无论你正经历着什么，过得是否开心，世界不会因为你的疲惫，而停下它的脚步。那些你不能释怀的人与事，总有一天会在你念念不忘之中遗忘。无论黑夜多么漫长不堪，黎明始终会如期而至。睡一觉，愿美梦治愈你的难过。No matter what you are experiencing and whether you are happy or not, the world will not stop because you are tired. Those people and things you can"t let go will be forgotten in your memory one day. No matter how long the night is, the dawn will always come on schedule. Sleep. May dreams heal your sorrows.
十六、别想那么多，管什么闲事，要做就要做到那个最难的：愿你的外表被世界摧残得没有棱角你的内心仍然充满尖刺和荆棘仍可以去寻找那给世界的灵魂解毒的药Don"t think so much, whatever you do, you have to do the most difficult thing: May your appearance be destroyed by the world without edges and corners, your heart is still full of thorns and thorns, and you can still find the antidote to the world"s soul.
十七、人这辈子：世界很大，人心很杂，哪能不遇到小人？红尘很深，人世浮华，哪能没有烦心事？想的浅一点，活着就该随遇而安！看的淡一点，头顶就有一汪蓝天！要想活得快乐，就得学会简单；要想活得幸福，就得学会知足；要想活得潇洒，就得学会糊涂！Man"s life: The world is very big, people"s hearts are very mixed, how can we not meet a villain? Red dust is deep, the world is flashy, how can there be no worries? Think shallowly, live as you please! Look at the light, there is a blue sky overhead! If you want to live happily, you must learn to be simple; if you want to live happily, you must learn to be content; if you want to live freely, you must learn to be confused!
