有没有人像我一样，总觉得拒绝别人像是自己做错了事，因为没有满足别人的要求而心生愧疚，明明和自己毫无关系，却始终觉得不好意思。
Is there anyone like me who always feels that refusing others is like doing something wrong. It makes people feel guilty because they don"t meet the demands of others. It"s nothing to do with myself, but it"s embarrassing.
你处处顾及别人，可谁又真正在意过你的感受，你就是好得不够纯粹，坏得不够彻底，所以才那么痛。
You care about others everywhere, but who really cares about your feelings, you are not pure enough good, not thorough enough bad, so it is so painful.
后来才发现不是他的问题，是我想要的越来越多，我需要他做得更多，来填补我所需要的安全感。
Later I found out that it wasn"t his problem. It was because I wanted more and more. I needed him to do more to fill in the security I needed.
我这人就是这个脾气，只要别人不理我的，我不会再硬着脸皮去打扰，你若对我沉默，我也只好对你冷漠。
This is my temper. As long as others don"t pay attention to me, I won"t bother with a stiff face. If you are silent to me, I have to be indifferent to you.
你只是看起来很快乐，那些漆黑的夜晚，那些不敢哭出声的日子，眼泪在眼眶打转的感觉，只有你知道。
You just look happy. Those dark nights, those days that dare not cry, the feeling of tears in the eyes, only you know.
不要把负面情绪传递到别人身上，朋友也不行，每个人每天都很辛苦的，自己心里难过就好了。
Don"t pass on the negative emotions to others, neither can friends. Everyone works hard every day. It"s good to be sad in their own heart.
不要去质问谁为什么不回信息，也不要幼稚，因为没回信息而生气掉眼泪，后来我也知道很多事情不一定有结果。
Don"t question who didn"t return the information, and don"t be naive. Don"t cry because someone didn"t return the information. Later, I also know that many things don"t necessarily have results.
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