分手后,不仅你有了新的生活,对方也是,过多的联系,反而会让人家难以平静。
After breaking up, not only do you have a new life, but also the other party. Too much contact will make it difficult for others to calm down.
要想知道对方是否付出了一切,首先要弄清楚他对你的态度,这是一种自我保护的方法,也可以避免为不值得的人浪费时间和精力。
If you want to know whether the other party has paid everything, you must first find out his attitude towards you. This is a way to protect yourself and avoid wasting time and energy for people who are not worth it.
刚刚听她说的时候,人们还图个新鲜,可她说了无数遍以后,谁都不感兴趣再听一遍,再者,旁人也怕卷入她的家庭矛盾之中,所以大家都对她避而不谈。
Just listening to her, people still wanted to be fresh, but after she said it countless times, no one was interested in listening again. Moreover, others were afraid of getting involved in her family contradictions, so everyone avoided talking about her.
好好对待你养育你的父母
Treat you well and raise your parents
情感也是这样,心有灵犀毕竟是少数,很多时候,你不让对方知道你的心意,不努力表达,那么很有可能,你们便会因此错过。
The same is true of emotion. After all, there are a few people who have a good heart. Many times, if you don"t let the other party know your mind and don"t try to express it, you are likely to miss it.
只希望会有个人,在我说还好的时候,知道我并不真的很好;还可以,在我强颜欢笑的时候,知道我不是真正快乐。
I just hope there will be someone who knows I"m not really good when I say I"m OK; It"s OK. When I force a smile, I know I"m not really happy.
爱情不能,如果放在年少的时候,那是最让人难以释怀的事情。
Love can"t be. If you put it in your youth, it"s the most unforgettable thing.