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女性期望躲在个人洞穴（私人空间）里的男性能立刻变得坦诚起来、有求必应、充满爱意，这是不现实的，就如同男性期望一个情绪不佳的女人立即就冷静下来，能讲道理一样是不现实的。期望男性在感情关系中总是充满爱意是错误的，就如同期望女性的感受总是理性和符合逻辑一样是错误的。
当火星人（男性）躲进他们的私人洞穴时，他们往往忘记了他们的朋友可能也会遇到问题的。此时，男性的本能会占据上风并告诉男性，在你能照顾其他人之前，你必须先照顾好自己。当女性看到男性的这种反应方式时，她通常会很抵触，并憎恨男性。
To expect a man who is in his cave instantly to become open, responsive, and loving is as unrealistic as expecting a woman who is upset immediately to calm down and make complete sense. It is a mistake to expect a man to always be in touch with his loving feelings just as it is a mistake to expect a woman"s feelings to always be rational and logical.
When Martians go to their caves they tend to forget that their friends may be having problems too. An instinct takes over that says before you can take care of anybody else, you must first take care of yourself. When a woman sees a man react in this way, she generally resists it and resents the man.
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