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其实在真正的爱情里，没有一个女孩子是不作的，假如在你们的这段爱情里，她表现出很懂事，也不粘着你，也不主动找你，那大概率是她根本就不喜欢你。
In fact, in the true love, no girl is not to do, if in your this love, she showed very sensible, also do not stick to you, also do not take the initiative to find you, the probability is that she does not like you.
现在生活中，大家都很喜欢把随缘挂在嘴边，其实呢？真正的随缘，不是说你可以什么都不用去做，而是在你拼尽全力后的那份豁然开朗，而现在很多人，往往把随缘当成了一个可以我去努力的借口，但你还没有拼尽全力的时候，你说出口的岁月，其实就是你懒得理罢了。
Now in life, we all like to hang on the mouth, actually? Real karma, not that you can do nothing, but in your best after the suddenly enlightened, and now a lot of people, often take the karma as an excuse I can try, but you have not tried your best, you said the years, in fact, you are too lazy to reason.
其实一段真正好的感情，可以让女方变得更加的温柔，更加的年轻，也可以让男方变得更加的有责任感，更加积极向上，而一段不好的感情，只会让双方变得更加不好，如果是这样的话，还是尽早离开的好。
In fact, a really good relationship can make the woman more gentle and younger, and also make the man more responsible and positive, while a bad relationship will only make both parties worse, if so, it is better to leave as soon as possible.
其实一个人假如他遇到事情只会抱怨的话，那么他肯定不会有什么大的成就，因为抱怨往往是和能力成反比的，不知道你有没有发现，生活中那些越喜欢抱怨的人其实就是那些也没有什么能力的人。
In fact, a person if he will only complain about things, so he certainly will not have what big achievement, because complain is often inversely proportional to the ability, do not know if you have found that the life of those who like to complain more is actually those who do not have what ability.
不管是在生活中还是工作中，你都要坚持维护自己的原则和底线，因为这是不可以随便退让的，因为生活中多的是那些得寸进尺的人，但让他们发现你是一个可以讨价还价的人，那么他们可能就会更加的得寸进尺，由此可见，守住自己的原则和底线，是多么的重要！
Whether in life or work, you have to stick to maintain their own principles and the bottom line, because this is can"t literally give, because in the life more is those who push your luck, but that they find you is a man who can bargain, so they may be more insatiable, so, keep their principles and the bottom line, how important it is!
在成年人的世界里就是要学会好好地隐藏自己的情绪，不管悲伤也好，快乐也好，不要让别人眼看穿，要知道在职场上，假如别人可以一眼就看清楚你喜怒哀乐的话，那么你就很可能被别人牵着鼻子走。
In the world of adult should learn to conceal oneself mood well namely, no matter be sad no matter, happy no matter, do not let others see wear, want to know on the job market, if other people can see clearly at a glance the word of your happiness and sorrow, so you are likely to be led by others nose walk.
记住，不管生活还是工作中，我们都不要去当那种老好人，你以为你是和善大局为重，其实对别人来说根本不是这样，你出于善意去帮助他们，但是他们可能并不会感激你的恩情，还很有可能在未来的某一天当你没有去帮助他时，他们还很有可能反过来责怪你，甚至怨恨你。
Remember, no matter in life or work, we all don"t go when the old boy, do you think you are kind and the general situation as heavy, it is not for the other in this way, your good intentions to help them, but they may not appreciate your kindness, is also likely to in the future one day when you don"t have to help him, they also have a lot of may, in turn, blame you, even hate you.
结语：其实人生每个阶段都会有不同的生活感悟，很多事情，只有自己亲身经历了才会真正体会到每个阶段所蕴藏着的人生真谛。
Conclusion: In fact, each stage of life will have a different perception of life, a lot of things, only their own personal experience will really realize the essence of life contained in each stage.
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