现在的人，真的是白天各有各的光鲜亮丽，而晚上又各有各的崩溃抑郁。
Nowadays, people really have their own bright days and their own crashes and depressions at night.
不要总是每天都没心没肺地笑了，如果你不哭一次的话，又怎么会有人来心疼你呢？
Don"t always every day heartless smile, if you don"t cry once, and how can someone love you?
现在的我过得不算坏，但也不算好，没有惊喜，也没有难过，总的来说反正还死不了。
Now I live not bad, but not good, no surprise, no sad, in general, anyway still can"t die.
记住你的善解人意不必用在所有人的身上，而你的爱情也不应该是通过强迫你自己放弃原则来维持的，人生这么短暂，不要发大把的时间去讨好别人，其实你最应该讨好的是你自己。
Remember that your understanding need not be used in all people, and your love should not be maintained by forcing yourself to give up the principle, life is so short, don"t spend a lot of time to please others, in fact, you should please yourself most.
现在，哪个没心没肺的人，曾经没有一段为别人掏心掏肺的经历呢？为当初奋不顾身的喜欢上一个人，最后却又让自己伤得体无完肤，所以后来就把自己变得没心没肺了吧！
Now, who has not a heartless person, has not a heart out for the experience of others? For the original desperate love on a person, but finally let oneself hurt all over again, so then you become heartless!
或许真正的成长就是，我们学会了放下不甘和爱而不得，后来学会了顺其自然，也学会了闭嘴。
Maybe the real growth is that we learned to put down the unwilling and love but not, and then learned to let nature take its course, also learned to shut up.
后来我发现，原来这个世界上最让人难过的并不是决绝的分手，而是那种两个人既不能在一起，但是却又断不干净的那种说不清，道不明的情感才最是消耗人。
Later, I found that the most sad thing in the world is not the absolute break up, but the kind of two people can not be together, but not clean, but the kind of undefinable, unexplainable emotion is the most consuming.
或许现在整天抱着手机的人，也并不是都爱玩手机，可能只是因为，除了手机以外，没有人会陪着他。
Maybe people who hold mobile phones all day are not all fond of playing with them. Maybe it is just because, in addition to mobile phones, no one will accompany him.
生活里总会充满各种各样的遗憾，可是遗憾终归已经成为了遗憾，我们总不能一直就停留在这原地，这个世界上很多事情就像春天的花一样，花期一过，也就枯萎凋谢了。
Life will always be full of a variety of regrets, but regret has become regret, we can"t always stay in this place, this world a lot of things like the spring flowers, flowering time, also withered and withered.
原来一直以来都是我自己的一厢情愿，我总是一个人在脑海里排练着我们未来的美好日子，后来我才发现你的未来并没有我，而我一个人将这一场独角戏演得泪流满面。
It turned out that it had always been my own wishful thinking. I was always rehearsing in my mind the wonderful days in the future. Later, I found that your future did not have me, and I acted this one-man show with tears streaming down my face.
结语：曾经听身边的男性朋友说过这样一句话：“还是得要好好努力呀，以后要是没房没车的话，就算我很喜欢的女孩子，跟我告白，我都不敢答应，虽然她不懂事，我得懂啊！”是啊，没有一定经济基础的爱情，真的很脆弱吧！
Conclusion: I have heard a male friend said such a sentence: "Or have to work hard, if there is no room and no car in the future, even if I like the girl, tell me, I dare not promise, although she is not sensible, I have to understand! Yes, there is no certain economic basis of love, it is really fragile!
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