一、做一个干净洒脱的人，往事不记，后事不提。遇到事，先处理情绪，后处理事情，情绪处理不好，事情会更糟。Be a clean and free person. Don"t remember the past, don"t mention the aftermath. When something happens, deal with emotions first, and deal with things afterwards. If you don"t handle emotions properly, things will get worse.
二、人生在世，总会有些感情，因失去而美丽；生活有进有退，输什么也不能输了心情。这世上，有时笑笑人家，有时给别人笑笑自己，放轻松，给自己快乐，也给别人快乐。别沉浸在往事中难以自拔，别让回忆成为一种羁绊。"s life, there will always be some feelings, beautiful because of loss; life has progressed and retreated, lose nothing can lose the mood. In this world, sometimes laugh at others, sometimes give others laugh at themselves, relax, give themselves happiness, also give others happiness. Don"t immerse yourself in the past, don"t let memories become a fetter.
三、不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。你变了，我也变了，回不去的温柔，泪水如泉涌，最熟悉的变得最令我心痛。do not expect, do not assume, do not demand, let it be, if doomed, it will happen. Peace of mind is the best state of being alive. You have changed, I have also changed, can not go back to the gentle, tears like springs, the most familiar become the most painful.
四、昨天如影——记住你昨天的挫折和失败的教训；今天如画——美好的生活、快乐和幸福的人生要靠你自己去描绘；明天如梦——珍惜今天，选择好自己的目标，努力地为自己的明天去寻求和拼搏。yesterday is like a shadow --- remember the lessons of your setbacks and failures yesterday; today is like a picture --- a good life, a happy and happy life depends on you to describe; tomorrow is like a dream --- cherish today, choose your goals, and strive for their own tomorrow to seek and struggle. Now that
五、 既然已经伤害了过去，就不要再辜负了将来。该走的人迟早会走，与其费力勒紧手里的线，不如等风来的时候就放手，我们不能总为不值得的人流太多眼泪。has hurt the past, don"t let the future down. Sooner or later, the person who should go will go. Instead of tightening the line in his hand, let go when the wind comes. We can"t always shed too many tears for the unworthy.
六、不要拿着别人的地图，找自己的路。时间真的是这世界上最好的跨度，让惨痛变得苍白，让执着的人选择离开，然后历经沧桑人来人往，你会明白，万般皆是命，半点不由人！should not take other people"s maps and find its own way. Time is really the best span in the world, making the pain pale, letting the persistent people choose to leave, and then through the vicissitudes of human contact, you will understand that everything is fate, not a bit by human!
七、无论你此刻是否迷茫，在阳光升起的时候请相信，努力的人最终都有回报。幸运只是一种偶然，人生本是过客，何必千千结，我们应看清内心深处的真正所需。只要人们愿意去打开封闭的内心，然后去体会、去拥抱眼前的幸福，就会比别人活得更富足，更快乐。Whether you are confused at the moment or not, when the sun rises, believe that the hard-working people will eventually return. Fortune is just an accident. Life is a passer-by. Why do we have so many knots? We should see what we really need in our hearts. As long as people are willing to open their closed hearts, and then to experience and embrace the happiness in front of them, they will live richer and happier than others.
八、痛过，才知道如何保护自己；哭过，才知道心痛过是什么感觉；傻过。才知道适时的坚持与放弃；爱过，才知道自己其实很脆弱。knows how to protect itself only when it has suffered; it knows how it feels when it has cried; it knows how it feels when it has been foolish. Only know the timely perseverance and abandonment; love, only know that they are actually very fragile.
九、今生，命运安排彼此相遇，若没有那些美丽的悸动，岂不是白白浪费了时光。紫陌红尘，有缘相逢，爱过痛过、哭过笑过，不枉此生。相信一切都是最好安排，若决定在一起，就好好相爱，不要轻易说分离。in this life, destiny arranges to meet each other, if not those beautiful throbs, it is not a waste of time. Purple Street Red dust, fate to meet, love pain, cry and laugh, not in vain this life. Believe that everything is the best arrangement, if you decide to be together, love each other well, don"t say separation easily.
十、不是除了你，我就没人要了。只是除了你，我谁都不想要。别把他人的善良当软弱，那是一种大度；别把他人的宽容当懦弱，那是一种慈悲。好脾气的人不轻易发火，不代表不会发火；性子淡的人只是装糊涂，不代表没有底线。I don"t want anybody but you. I just don"t want anybody but you. Don"t treat others"kindness as weakness, it"s a kind of magnanimity; don"t treat others" tolerance as cowardice, it"s a kind of compassion. A good-tempered person does not easily get angry, which does not mean that he will not get angry; a light-tempered person just pretends to be confused, which does not mean that he has no bottom line.
十一、盛开是真实的，凋谢也是真实的；寒冷是真实的，温馨也是真实的；距离是真实的，思念也是真实的；冬至是真实的，祝福也是真实的。blooming is real, withering is real; cold is real, warm is real; distance is real, missing is real; winter solstice is real, blessings are real.
十二、人生如喝过的茶，少了苦涩多了平和，淡了青春的气息，浓了成熟的味道。携一份云淡风轻，默默行走在烟雨红尘中，感知人生冷暖，步步生莲，洗尽铅华，丰润了底蕴，沉淀出饱满。life is like drinking tea, less bitter and more peaceful, light the smell of youth, strong mature taste. With a light cloud and light wind, walking silently in the smoke, rain and red dust, feeling the warmth of life, step by step, lotus, wash out the lead, enrich the details, precipitate full.
十三、有一次，我们梦见大家都是不相识的。我们醒了，却知道我们原是相亲相爱的。有一天，我们梦见我们相亲相爱了，我醒了，才知道我们早已经是陌路。once dreamed that everyone was strangers. We wake up knowing that we were dear to each other. One day, we dreamed that we were in love with each other, and I woke up to realize that we had been strangers.
十四、 当你学会放弃，你才可以承受一切的失望和谎言。我什么都可以不要了，你还能拿我怎样？听说人在最害怕的时候会喊出自己喜欢人的名字，那么问题来了？你们认识一个名字叫“卧槽”的吗？看见了帮我转告一声，我喜欢你很久了。When you learn to give up, you can bear all disappointments and lies. I don"t want anything. What else can you do with me? I heard that when people are most afraid, they will shout the names of their favorite people. So the problem arises? Do you know a man named "sleeper"? See and tell me, I like you for a long time.
十五、我给你一颗糖，你看到我给他两颗，你就对我有看法了，但你不知道他也曾给我两颗糖，而你什么都没给过我。你不喜欢我了我还能把你追回来，如果你爱上了别人那我还有什么办法。I"ll give you a candy, you see I give him two, you have a view of me, but you do not know that he also gave me two candies, and you did not give me anything. If you don"t like me, I can get you back. If you fall in love with someone else, what else can I do? One of the main functions of
十六、友谊的主要效用之一就在于使人心中的愤懑抑郁得以宣泄、弛放。……对一个真正的朋友，你可以传达你的忧愁、欢悦、恐惧、希望、疑忌、谏诤，以及任何压在你身上的事情。friendship is to release the anger and depression in people"s hearts. To a true friend, you can convey your sorrow, joy, fear, hope, doubt, admonition, and anything that weighs on you.
十七、我习惯了装作无所谓，却不是真的什么都不在乎，我也想有个人能看穿我的逞强，给我一个大大的拥抱。这一辈子没什么野心，只想自己过得好，有爱我的人，有去拼的勇气，有要做的自己。就这样全力以赴，会很酷。I used to pretend to be indifferent, but not really do not care about anything, I also want to have a person to see through my success, give me a big hug. In this life, there is no ambition, just want to live well, love my people, have the courage to fight, have to do their own. It would be cool to go all out like that.
