一、一个人没什么不好，拥有的喜怒哀乐都是自己的而不是别人的。不要盘算太多，要顺其自然。该是你的终会得到。压抑自己没必要，奉承巴结也没必要。
there is nothing wrong with a person. All the joys and sorrows He has are his own, not others. Don"t think too much. Let nature take its course. It"s up to you to get it. It is not necessary to suppress oneself, nor is it necessary to flatter.
二、每天嘻嘻哈哈的笑着，只有自己知道活得有多累。白天笑给别人看，晚上哭给自己听。 我想我还是不够成熟，没办法为自己那颗浮躁的心波澜不惊地掌舵。
Every day I laugh and laugh, only I know how tired I am. Laugh to others during the day and cry to yourself at night. I think I"m still not mature enough to steer my impetuous heart without alarm.
三、一切的精神和心灵受伤，原因不在外界，而在我们自身，核心的受伤因素是因为我们太注重了自己，太看重了自己的自尊心和虚荣心，太想维护自己的尊严和颜面，太执着了我们自己认为“正确”的价值观和世界观。
all the spiritual and spiritual injuries are not caused by the outside world, but in ourselves, the core injuries are because we attach too much importance to ourselves, to our self-esteem and vanity, to our dignity and face, and to our own "correct" values and world outlook.
四、我总是太容易因为小事难过而荒废时间，忘记了我不奔跑不会有人给我撑伞。多少无奈藏心中，多少惆怅化无言，最后过往都成了心底的伤痕，只有自己知道。
I"m always too easy to waste time because of trifles. I forget that no one will hold an umbrella for me if I don"t run. How many helpless to hide in the heart, how many melancholy silence, and finally the past has become a scar in the heart, only you know.
五、冬天到，愿寒风带着烦恼一起被吹跑，雪花带着快乐一同来舞蹈，冬日带着幸福一起来照耀，短信带着关怀一起来送到，天冷加衣别忘掉，身体健康最重要！
Winter is coming. May the cold wind be blown away with troubles, the snow dance with happiness, the winter shine with happiness, and the text message be delivered with care. Don"t forget the cold weather and clothes. Health is the most important!
六、学会去微笑，渐渐地你的气质会越来越好；学会去适应，渐渐地你的处境会越来越顺；学会去理解，渐渐地你的知己会越来越多；学会去包容，渐渐地你的生活会越来越美；学会去欣赏，渐渐地你的人际会越来越广；学会去谦让，渐渐地你的肚量会越来越宽；学会去良善，渐渐地你的世界会越来越净。
七、该舍就舍去，舍去了乌云密布的阴雨天，才会看到彩虹挂的蔚蓝的天空，舍去了下雪天，才能感受到阳光的温暖。会闻到芳草的清香，听到动人的音乐。
the house will abandon, abandon the cloudy rainy day, only to see the blue sky hung by the rainbow, abandon the snowy day, can we feel the warmth of the sunshine. I can smell the fragrance of herbs and hear moving music.
八、只有当一个人独处的时候，他才可以完全成为自己，找到内心真正的平和与宁静。不懂变通的老实，实则就是愚蠢。
only when a person is alone can he become himself completely and find real peace and tranquility in his heart. To be honest without flexibility is to be foolish.
九、优秀的人总能看到比自己更好的，而平庸的人却总看到比自己更差的。每个人都有自己的价值所在，关键是如何去寻找，开发，提升和放大。
Excellent people always see better than themselves, while mediocre people always see worse than themselves. Everyone has their own value, the key is how to find, develop, enhance and magnify.
十、在时光里，新有许多的不舍，可终归无法把握。但关于某个人的事却怎么也不会消散在时光里，因为那不用刻意想起，也从来不会忘记。
In time, there are many new reluctance, but ultimately can not grasp. But the thing about someone will never disappear in time, because it does not need to be deliberately remembered and never forgotten.
十一、想要走得快，就独自上路；想要走得远，就结伴同行。快与远，都是我们的追求。追求快中的独立，追求快中的坚强，给自己留一片属于自己的天空。追求远中的欢声笑语，追求远中的结伴同行，便不会有孤单。即便是失败了，那也无所谓，失败了，总是搏了一回，不后悔。
If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together. Fast and far are our pursuits. Pursuing independence in the fast, pursuing strength in the fast, leaving a piece of sky for oneself.
The pursuit of distant laughter, the pursuit of distant peers, there will be no loneliness. Even if it fails, it doesn"t matter. If it fails, it always beats once without regret.
十二、靠自己，狠狠地赚钱，不是因为有多爱钱，而是不想因为钱和谁低声下气，也不想因为钱而为难自己。人这一辈子，只希望在父母年老的时候，有能力赡养他们，而不是在他们生病的时候囊中羞涩；只希望在儿女有需要的时候，能够尽自己的一份绵薄之力！
Make money by yourself, not because you love money, but because you don"t want to be depressed by money and who you are, and because you don"t want to be embarrassed by money. In this lifetime, people only hope that their parents will be able to support them when they are old, instead of being shy when they are sick. They only hope that their children will do their best when they need it.
十三、和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，足矣。很多人想知道沙漠的那边是什麽，其实沙漠的那边是另外一个沙漠。
Communicate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and go with humorous people. If this is the case in life, it will be enough. Many people want to know what is on the other side of the desert. In fact, on the other side of the desert is another desert.
十四、 以清净心看世界，红尘的喧嚣就无法动摇你的心；用欢喜心过生活，生活中的不如意就影响不了你的心情。天堂与地狱，只在一念之间。
If you look at the world with a clear mind, the noise of the world will not shake your heart; if you live with joy, the unhappiness in your life will not affect your mood. Heaven and hell are just between one thought.
十五、越长大就越发觉，除了你自己，没有人会明白你的故事里有过多少快乐或伤悲，这世上根本不存在感同身受，所以别傻傻的摊开伤口向别人诉苦，这世上多的是撒盐的人。
The older you grow up, the more you realize that no one except yourself will understand how much happiness or sadness you have had in your story. There is no empathy in this world. So don"t open your wounds foolishly and complain to others. There are many salty people in this world.
十六、做事不需要人人都理解，只需尽职尽责，问心无愧；做人不需要人人都喜欢，只需尽心尽力，心安理得。如果你还爱她，我应该放手吗？如果你爱上他，我们就分手吧，你这样一拖一拖我难以自拔。
十七、不管什么时间都可以开始做自己想做的事，希望你不要用年龄和其他东西来束缚自己。年龄从来不是界限，除非你自己拿来为难自己。
You can start doing what you want at any time. I hope you don"t tie yourself to age and other things. Age is never the limit unless you embarrass yourself.
十八、眼泪，有时候是一种无法言说的幸福，微笑，有时候是一种没有说出口的伤痛。总会有一次流泪，让我们瞬间长大。
Tears, sometimes a kind of unspeakable happiness, smile, sometimes a kind of unspeakable pain. There will always be a tear, let us grow up in an instant.
十九、看见山时，你在山之外，看见河流时，你在河之外，如果你能观照你的痛，你便开始自痛中解脱。如果夜太凉，你可以焚香，煮茶，或者思念。总有一种暖，挂满你我回忆的老墙，不要去倚靠。
When you see a mountain, when you are outside the mountain, when you see a river, when you are outside the river, if you can watch your pain, you begin to relieve yourself from the pain. If the night is too cold, you can burn incense, boil tea, or miss. There is always a warm wall full of memories of you and me. Don"t rely on it.
二十、从此寻花问柳，闭口不谈一生厮守；从此红灯绿酒，再也不想牵谁的手；从此人海漂流，闭口不谈爱到白头。你想要的终究不是我，你想要的生活我也给不了，那么最好的选择就是离开你，之后不再打扰你。
Seek flowers and ask willows from now on, and keep silent about staying with each other for a lifetime. From then on, red lights and green wine never want to take anyone"s hand. From then on, people drift in the sea, and never talk about love to white head. What you want is not me after all, and I can"t give you the life you want, so the best choice is to leave you, and then stop disturbing you.
二十一、何时何地，你都要明白，你是活给自己看的，别把别人的评价看得太重，凡事只要于心无愧，就不必计较太多。
When and where, you must understand that you are living for yourself. Don"t take others"evaluation too seriously. You don"t have to worry too much about everything as long as you have a clear conscience.
二十二、人生的平凡、平淡、平庸，常归因于一个字：怕。怕得到的会失去，怕转身了就是永别，怕摔跤后再也起不来，在怕中畏首畏尾裹足不前。人生的快乐，走自己的路，看自己的景。
二十三、最容易获得的最珍贵，可是，最容易获得的却最容易被人忽视和不珍惜，上帝给每个人都给了获得伊甸园的机会，可我们却没有引起足够的重视和珍惜，许多人是得而复失。失去容易获得难，可惜呀！ 寻找属于自己的伊甸园吧！愿人人都能找到自己的伊甸园！
The easiest to get is the most precious, but the easiest to get is the easiest to be ignored and cherished. God has given everyone the opportunity to get the Garden of Eden, but we have not attracted enough attention and treasure. Many people gain and lose. Losing is easy to get, but it"s a pity. Find your own Garden of Eden! May everyone find their own Garden of Eden!
