一、心态好，人缘好，因为懂得宽容；心态好，做事顺利，因为不拘小节；心态好，生活愉快，因为懂得放下。别让脾气和本事一样大，越有本事的人越没脾气。心态好的人，处处圆融，处处圆满。好的心态，能激发人生最大的潜能，是你最大的财富。Good mentality, good popularity, because they know tolerance; good mentality, work smoothly, because no matter what the details; good mentality, happy life, because they know to put down. Don"t let your temper be as big as your ability. The more capable you are, the less temperamental you are. People with good mentality are melting and perfecting everywhere. A good attitude can stimulate the greatest potential of life and is your greatest wealth.
二、寒窗十载，等冬去春来，雾霭阴霾终败。想送你回家的人，东南西北都顺路；愿陪你吃饭的人，酸甜苦辣都爱吃；想见你的人，千山万水都能赶来。无论是一瞬一息，还是一生一世，都要珍惜眼前人。Winter window for ten years. When winter comes and spring comes, mist and haze will eventually fail. Those who want to take you home are all on the way from southeast to northwest; those who would like to accompany you to dinner are fond of eating bitter and bitter; those who want to see you can come from mountains and rivers. Whether it"s a flash or a lifetime, we should cherish the people in front of us.
三、 选择了安逸舒适，就不必羡慕别人的精彩；选择了惊涛骇浪，就无须向往岁月静好。不同的选择给予你不同的生活路径。没有孰对孰错，只要认定你内心真正想要的，并为之持续努力，每个人都会是自己的人生赢家！If you choose comfort and comfort, you don"t need to envy others"brilliance; if you choose stormy waves, you don"t need to yearn for quiet years. Different choices give you different paths of life. There is no right or wrong, as long as you identify what you really want in your heart, and continue to work for it, everyone will be the winner of their own life!
四、最初的跟最爱的纷纷离我而去后，我选择用最极端的方式，就此孤老终身……不能见面的时候，我们互相思念。可是一旦能够见面，一旦再走到一起，我们又会互相折磨。After leaving me with my favorite ones in the first place, I chose the most extreme way to live alone forever. When we can"t meet, we miss each other. But once we can meet and come together again, we will torture each other.
五、可以努力加倍，期望减半，任何事情都是花掉你计划的两倍时间，最后却只换来你一半的期望结果。没什么好为此沮丧，（中国俗话说：事倍功半）让它去吧，你要继续前行。You can double your expectations, halve your expectations, spend twice as much time as you planned, and end up with half your expectations. There"s nothing to be frustrated about. Let it go. You have to move on. & lt; br /& gt;
六、即便沉落在物欲横流的世界，仍有很多很多的事，从来未受利益的污染，纯粹因为纯粹的感情而存在而发展。不管此时此刻你的人生有多糟糕，不管你是否经历过感情的伤痛，请不要忘记爱情最初的模样。相濡以沫，和爱的人一起欣赏世界曼妙的风景。相信自己，找准自己的位置，你同样可以拥有一个有价值的人生。Even in the world of material desire, there are still many things, which have never been polluted by interests, and develop solely because of the existence of pure emotions. No matter how bad your life is at this moment, whether you have experienced emotional pain or not, please don"t forget the original appearance of love. Enjoy the wonderful scenery of the world with the people you love. Believe in yourself, find your place, you can also have a valuable life.
七、很多时候，不经意知道一些事情后，表面装作无所谓，用微笑掩饰，其实心里，比什么都痛。 无数个瞬间我都在想你在就好了，结果还是我一个人熬过了所有这些时刻。后来你才出现了，可我也不需要了。Many times, after inadvertently knowing something, pretending to be indifferent on the surface and hiding it with a smile, in fact, it hurts more than anything in the heart. I"ve been thinking about you for countless moments, and I"ve survived all these moments alone. Then you appeared, but I didn"t need it.
八、人性凉薄，用你的时候有多热情，不用你的时候就有多冷淡。我不需要你是个盖世英雄，我也不希望你有举世无双的功夫，更不用你脚踏七彩祥云，只愿你是我一个人的齐天大圣。Humanity is cold and thin. How warm you are when you use it, and how cold you are when you don"t use it. I don"t need you to be a hero of the world. I don"t want you to have unparalleled skills in the world, not to mention your footsteps in the colorful clouds. I just wish you were the sage of my life.
九、有时候你把什么放下了，不是因为突然就舍得了，而是因为期限到了，任性够了，成熟多了，也就知道这一页该翻过去了。无聊的时候，喜欢掏出手机看一下时间， 然后解锁，翻动几页功能表。 又锁屏放回裤兜里。是不是你…Sometimes what you put down is not because you suddenly can"t give up, but because the deadline has arrived, wayward enough, mature enough, you know that this page should be turned over. When bored, I like to take out my mobile phone to look at the time, then unlock it and flip several pages of the menu. Lock the screen back into your trousers pocket. Is it you?
十、总会有人说你好，会有人说你不好，但只要我们做人做事问心无愧，就不必执着于他人的评判。无须看别人的眼神，不必一味讨好别人，那样会使自己活得更累。当有人对你施不敬的言语，请不要在意，更不要因此而起烦恼。因为这些言语改变不了事实，却可能搅乱你的心。心如果乱了，一切就都乱了。There will always be people who say hello and people who say you"re not good, but as long as we have a clear conscience for what we do, we don"t have to stick to other people"s judgments. No need to look at other people"s eyes, no need to blindly please others, that will make their lives more tired. When someone says something disrespectful to you, don"t take it seriously, let alone worry about it. Because these words can not change the facts, but may disturb your heart. If the heart is chaotic, everything will be chaotic.
十一、你在害怕什么？怕忽然有一天和他在大街上相遇，他却牵着别人的手，怕突如其来的尴尬或多年以后依旧放不下。当你自己开始改变的时候，你的世界也会随之发生改变。当我们到了无话不说的地步，却发现我们再也无话可说。What are you afraid of? Afraid of meeting him in the street one day, he is holding other people"s hands, afraid of unexpected embarrassment or years later still can not put down. When you start to change yourself, your world will change as well. When we reach the point where we have nothing to say, we find that we have nothing to say.
十二、每一个人都有一个一直守护的天使，这个天使如果觉得出现在你的生命里，陪你度过一小段快乐的时光，然后他再不动声色的离开。于是你的人生就有了幸福的回忆，即使以后你的道路上布满了风雪，可是你依然可以想起曾经幸福的事情，你就依然有生活的信念。Everyone has an angel who has been guarding. If this angel appears in your life, he will accompany you for a short period of happy time, and then he will leave quietly. So your life has happy memories, even if your road is covered with snow, but you can still remember the happy things, you still have the belief in life.
十三、人生顿悟贵在有一颗平淡的心，人生路上，可能春风得意，也可能坎坷不平，无论如何，我们都要一直走下去。荣耀也罢，屈辱也罢，都要以平和的心态去面对，少一些无奈与感慨，多一份从容和淡然。The insight of life is that you have a plain heart. On the way of life, you may be proud of the spring breeze, or you may be bumpy. Anyway, we must keep going. Glory or humiliation should be faced with a peaceful attitude, less helplessness and emotion, more calm and indifferent.
十四、所谓岁月静好，好不过能有个人，知你冷暖，懂你悲欢，懂你的人，才配得上你的余生，愿我们彼此默契，走尽千帆，仍能携手相伴。The so-called quiet years, but can have a person, know you cold and warm, understand your joys and sorrows, understand your people, just deserve the rest of your life, I hope we understand each other tacitly, walk thousands of sails, still can hand in hand.
十五、淡然的心态，是人生的成熟。人生的路，就是一种感受，一种经历，一种体会。无论如何我们都会走到终点。只是生活中，有的人欢乐多于悲哀，有的人坎坷多于欢欣。The indifferent mentality is the maturity of life. The way of life is a feeling, an experience, an experience. In any case, we will come to the end. But in life, some people are more happy than sad, some people are more frustrated than happy.
十六、 无论有多少激情燃烧的岁月，人终有一天会自己顿悟，或是因为一句嘘寒，或是因为久别的一缕阳光，反正觉得人生就是平淡，也终能从平淡中获得幸福。No matter how many years of passionate burning, one day one will realize it by oneself, either because of a shush of cold, or because of a ray of sunshine after a long time. Anyway, he feels that life is dull, and he will eventually get happiness from dullness.
十七、生活不曾取悦于我，所以我创造了自己的生活。与其在意别人的背弃和不善，不如经营自己的尊严和美好。Life didn"t please me, so I created my own life. It"s better to run your own dignity and beauty than to care about the betrayal and misdeeds of others.
