都说女孩子不愿意陪你吃苦，其实错了，一个真正爱你的女孩子不是怕吃苦，而是怕她陪你度过了艰难的岁月以后，你飞黄腾达了，将她遗忘了。
It is wrong to say that a girl does not want to bear hardships with you. A girl who really loves you is not afraid of suffering, but is afraid that she will accompany you through the difficult years. After you have gone through the difficult years, you have made great strides and forgotten her.
她更怕你辜负她对你这些年的所有付出，她这些年的付出最后却是新鲜感。
She is even more afraid that you will fail all her efforts to you all these years, but her efforts over the years will be fresh at the end.
一个真正爱你的女孩其实需要根本就不多，她不会嫌弃你穷，也不会嫌弃你所有的坏毛病，她希望永远都是你对她的偏袒，你对她的包容，你对她的偏爱而已。
A girl who really loves you doesn"t need much at all. She won"t hate you for being poor, nor will she hate all your bad habits. She hopes it will always be your favouritism, your tolerance to her, and your preference for her.
在感情里，有喜欢我们的人，也有我们喜欢的那个人，在喜欢和被喜欢的时候，我永远都睡忽略一个爱我们的，而去选择一个不爱我们的人。其实比起让我们心动的人，我们应该去只那个让我们感到心安的人。
In the relationship, there are people who like us, but also the person we like. When I like and be liked, I always sleep to ignore someone who loves us and choose someone who doesn"t love us. In fact, compared to the people who make us feel happy, we should go to only those who make us feel at peace of mind.
其实所有的女孩子都没有男孩子想的那么坚强，她们也会累，累了也会选择放手。有些女孩子其实并不坚强，只是她喜欢将所有的事情独自一个人去扛而已，因为她没有可以依靠的肩膀。
In fact, all the girls are not as strong as the boys think, they will also be tired, tired will also choose to let go. Some girls are not strong, but she likes to carry all the things alone, because she has no shoulders to rely on.
当你可以影响一个女孩子的心情的时候，你就应该明白这个女孩子喜欢上了你，其实女孩子明白你开始左右她心情的时候，她知道她动心了，也知道首先动心的代价很大。
When you can influence the mood of a girl, you should know that the girl likes you, in fact, the girl knows that when you start to influence her mood, she knows that she is moved, and that the cost of touching her first is very high.
后来我们才会发现，曾今那个和我们聊到来的人，他不单单是和你聊得来，而是他可以和很多的人都聊得来，他在你的心里是唯一，但可惜的就是，你在她的心里未必是唯一的。
Later, we will find that the person who came to talk to us today, he can not only talk to you, but he can talk to a lot of people, he is unique in your heart, but unfortunately, you are not necessarily unique in her heart.
