1、特别善良的人总是会被欺负,相反,你狠一点,别人会比之前尊敬你。
Especially kind people are always bullied. On the contrary, you are more ruthless, and others will respect you more than before.
2、真的不要用金钱去考量一个人,因为结果真的很难让你满意。
Really do not use money to consider a person, because the result is really difficult to satisfy you.
3、人好像都习惯了别人对自己好,但只要有一点不如意,就会记在心里。
It seems that people are used to being good to themselves, but as long as there is a little bit unsatisfactory, it will be remembered in mind.
4、真的不用事事都为别人着想,你对他的好,他可能根本就不需要。
You really don"t have to think of others in everything. If you treat him well, he may not need it at all.
5、当遇到困难时,朋友不帮你是很正常的事,你应该庆幸他没有在背后踩你。
It"s normal for a friend not to help you when you are in trouble. You should be glad that he didn"t step on you behind your back.
6、很多时候就是因为你给的爱太多,所以到最后你才一无所有。
Most of the time because you give too much love, so in the end you have nothing.
7、尽量不要用人情,因为人情用得越多,你的身边的朋友就会越少。
Try not to use affection, because the more it is used, the less friends you have around you.
8、这个世界只有强与弱。你强,别人都会尊重你。你弱,别人根本不会理会你。要知道,富在深山有远亲,穷在闹市无人问。
The world is only strong and weak. You are strong, others will respect you. You"re weak, people won"t pay attention to you at all. You know, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, the poor in the downtown no one asked.
9、人很多时候都是口不对心,说一套,做一套。
A lot of time, people are not right, say a set, do a set.
10、有的时候你明明说了实话,还要跟别人道歉,是因为你说了事实。
Sometimes you say the truth and apologize to others because you have told the truth.
11、这个世界就是喜欢攀比,小的时候比成绩,长大了比工作,老了比小孩。
In this world, I like to compare with others. When I was young, I compared with my grades. When I grew up, I compared with my work and my children.
12、用得着人的时候,百般讨好,用不着人的时候,不闻不问。
When you need people, please them in every way. When you don"t need people, don"t ask.
13、欠钱的都变成了大爷,跟他提钱,他还觉得你人品不行。
Those who owe money have become masters. When you ask him for money, he still thinks you are not good.
14、区别对待就是,十年前你周围的人会根据你父母的实力对待你,十年后你周围的人会根据你的实力对待你的父母还有小孩。
The difference is that ten years ago, people around you will treat you according to your parents" strength, and ten years later, people around you will treat your parents and children according to your strength.